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They All Start Early!

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IRCC Pool

The funniest thing I head today was from a relatively new swimmer on the team. Normally on the football team, this kid has made a between-season switch to swimming.

Today he swam his first 100 yard event. The length of the pool is 25 yards, so four laps are required to complete this event. Upon completion of his swim, another swimmer was complementing him on his time. He responded, "That sucked! I lost count after the first 25 and had to  keep watching  to see when everyone else stopped swimming!"

A Walk Down Memory Lane

Img_5449Searching for colleges has now become almost a regular pastime for Lizzy and myself. Sometimes it's online, often it's via the mailman and twice now it's been an actual visit to a campus.

Last weekend we visited my alma mater. Good old Florida Southern College. Not only is it the home of the Mocs, but it is also home to the largest collection of Frank Lloyd Wright architecture in the world. (Can I hear the collective 'oohs'?)

As with any place, it's changed a lot in the 24 years which have passed between then and now. As I entered Branscomb auditorium for the first session, it occurred to me that the last time I was in that building (my graduation), my whole life was ahead of me; now, half of it is behind me. I tried not to wax too poetic on what I have to show for those years, but it was difficult not to consider what I had anticipated and envisioned versus what really happened. It's all good. Different, but good.

Img_5450 One of the things that was still the same was this melaleuca tree which grew outside the dorm which I lived in during my sophomore year. It's almost an L shaped tree and the branch which grew along the ground served as a bench on which we sat, talked and generally watched the world go by on many, many evenings!

I liked that that tree was still there. The bark is shiny and smooth from the countless bottoms that have perched on it. Where some of the buildings had been torn down and others put up, this old melaleuca remains.

During my freshman year, I had the great opportunity to have an absolutely  fabulous history professor. Dr. Santosoussa taught with every part of his being. I've often told Lizzy about how he could teach about the  American Revolution and act out each part himself - jumping from desk to stage in elaborate sword fights and then run behind a pillar to shoot as if from behind a tree. I never, ever missed one of his classes.

I had the good fortune to see Dr. Santosoussa during our visit and made it a point to tell him what I remembered and how he has become the benchmark for every other educator I've known since. He laughed that the one thing that really makes him feel old these days is when he realizes that he's now teaching the children of his former students.

Another of my professors was Dr. Johnson. I did not see him during my visit, but I spoke to students of his. As with Dr. Santosoussa, I have never forgotten Dr. Johnson, but unlike Dr. S, Dr. Johnson is a whole story unto himself!

Speaking of Feet

It was "Meet the Teacher" night at the high school so I took a walk in Lizzy's flip flops and had a glimpse of what her day is like.

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Clockwise from the top:  1. "Chandelier" in art class. 2. Flag in American History. 3. Horse in Literature.
4 Student. 5. Poster from homeroom. 6. The new building.

Bless Their Pointy Little Heads

As if one full-time sport in the family hasn't been enough, Michael has begun a journey of, as for now, indeterminate length.

Today was the first day for the newest karate kid!

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We don't know where this will take us, but we do know that we'll be inside and dry!

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Grandma's Girl

It's been some time since my mom has driven, but she has fiercely fought against her car being sold. She has been so adamant about not getting rid of that car that the subject has become pretty much a moot point. We all figured that her fury about selling this car was because by getting rid of the car, it meant that she had reconciled herself with the fact that she would never be able to drive again.

Okay, so we were wrong. Not the first time and most certainly not the last.

Last Friday when Lizzy bounced into her grandparents house to show off her brand new driver's license, my mother surprised us all by giving her the car. She told us that this had been her plan all along. It was her car to give away and she wasn't going to let "those men" make the decision about what was going to happen to it.

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I should have given her my car and kept this one! It is a true "only driven to church on Sundays" car. Like new and only 28,000 miles on it!

Mom always did like her better.

Fourth Time's the Charm

The first time Lizzy rode a bus to school was in the first grade.

It was a big event for all of us; my parents even came over and spent the night in order to see their little granddaughter off to school. Lizzy was so excited about school starting and riding that bus that she was up and dressed at four o'clock in the morning.

Finally the appointed hour arrived and we all headed down to the corner to await the bus. We must have been quite a sight: Lizzy and her entourage.

I didn't know how she would react when it came time to actually board the bus. I rehearsed my gently encouraging speech over and over in my head: "This will be great! You're going to have so much fun at school! I can't wait to meet all your new friends!" I envisioned having to drive a screaming kid to school on that first day.

The bus arrived. The door opened. The entourage tensed and held it's breath.

Lizzy climbed up into the bus, turned once, smiled, waved and said "See ya!" The doors closed and she was gone.

We were left, a small, sad entourage on the corner. A tear rolled down my cheek as I watched my confident daughter be carried off toward the future. She didn't need us; we needed her. Well, we needed her to need us.

So today, as I watch my confident daughter drive off by herself for the very first time, I'm reminded of that morning not so long ago. As a tear again rolls down my cheek I hope that in the short years that have separated that moment from this I have taught her to make good choices, do the right thing and to never forget that I still need her to need me even if it's only every once in awhile.

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It's All Fun and Games...

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Until everyone falls asleep!

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You'll Shoot Your Eye Out!

516myvpxjgl_aa240_How often have I said that to my daughter only to receive a blank stare? Ok, I get a lot of blank stares; she's the teenager and I'm just Mom. But this line is funny! This line comes from one of, if not THE greatest Christmas movies of all time.

Can it be, as she maintains, that she's never seen this movie? I watch this movie every year for goodness sake! Where has she been?

Evil Mom thinks she's just being arbitrary and is secretly trying to make me think I'm crazy. Nice Mom feels terrible about this oversight and is determined to set things right.

Either way, she's watching this movie with me tonight because I now own my very own copy of it and am no longer at the mercy of the television stations! Mwahahahaha.

After all, my heart is very "Fra - Gi - Lay" and I know she would never want to hurt my feelings.

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The First Fire of the Season

Roasting marshmallows over an open flame under a starry, starry sky.

What better way to celebrate the first night of Hanukkah!
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Atomic Wedgie

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Atlantis Resort, Paradise Island, Bahamas